Once in a while, life has a way of disrupting our well-practiced routines. Sometimes it is a painful disruption, such as an illness, accident or even a death in the family. And sometimes it’s more pleasurable. Like the birth of a new member, a career opportunity or even a chance to explore the unknown.
We know that as a single man or woman, if circumstances presented you with the chance to work abroad and live there, you might not take very long to make your decision. But when you’re married, have a significant other in your life or have children to consider, then the decision tends to get a tad harder to make. Here’s what you need to consider before you decide to move your all of the members abroad.
That the decision is one that every member agrees on
Be very, very sure that the decision to move abroad is what both of you, as parents, want. No doubt, you need to consider your children and their lives as well. After all, if they’re old enough, they might even prefer to stay back in your home country. Talk it out as a family before you settle into any commitment. Trust us, hastily made decisions can cost you a lot more than flight tickets.
The ability to adapt and accept change by every one of them
Depending on the country you plan to move to, it’s very possible that the culture and language that you are familiar with is completely different than that which you’d experience once you settle abroad. Be very sure you know what you’re getting into. Make sure your family knows that they’ll have to change, adapt, and accept their new home.
That it may eventually turn out to be a permanent thing
It’s possible that you are thinking of moving abroad with the family only for a few short years. But the thing is, you need to be prepared for the unexpected; like the moving becoming permanent. It’s not uncommon that expats simply looking to spend a few years overseas eventually decide to put out roots in their new home. In fact, it’s quite common with countries that offer investment immigration Hong Kong. Be sure every single member is aware of this possibility.
The future is uncertain
If you decide to consult a family migration consultants prior to your move, then be sure to ask them about the future of your children in the country you intend to stay in. Do your own research and find out about the career opportunities, availability and growth in your career’s field, for both yourself and your spouse. Don’t forget to check for schools as well, even if your children are not old enough for school yet!
Beyond all this, remember that you are uprooting your family away from your relatives. And even though international calls and video calls are now very common, it still won’t feel the same. Be very sure they will be able to survive, all alone in an unknown country, without the help of family or friends…